Good article. My own experience with habits (and I'm a huge fan of them) is that the more you employ habits the quicker they embed. You may start out needing 4 months to change a behaviour, but the more you create habits, the faster they manifest. Also, we must realise that we have to make positive associations with our habits which act to motivate us through the tough early days. And lastly, I agree with your summation that falling 'off the wagon' should be regarded as a temporary blip rather than a failure. I always say if you have a cigarette 30 days after quitting - pat yourself on the back for getting that far! Then tell yourself you're going to go more than 30 days before your next one. If you want to get something done - create a habit around it. :)
On Jul 16, 2014 Stuart Young wrote:
Good article. My own experience with habits (and I'm a huge fan of them) is that the more you employ habits the quicker they embed. You may start out needing 4 months to change a behaviour, but the more you create habits, the faster they manifest. Also, we must realise that we have to make positive associations with our habits which act to motivate us through the tough early days. And lastly, I agree with your summation that falling 'off the wagon' should be regarded as a temporary blip rather than a failure. I always say if you have a cigarette 30 days after quitting - pat yourself on the back for getting that far! Then tell yourself you're going to go more than 30 days before your next one. If you want to get something done - create a habit around it. :)