"whatever happens to me, happens for my good"

You can find many answers to your questions on the site www.helpothers.org 
there you will find that the only thing one needs is an open heart and magic happens, I have been part of the Helpothers community for some years now and believe me, not only my life but the life of many people I know has changed in amazing ways. If you can please take some time, read some stories and discover how we are all changing the world, one act of kindness at a time. I look forward to reading your stories there.