I was like you once....a non believer....then after the death of my grandmother, I began receiving messages from her...this pushed me into a different path for my life altogether and I still have trouble believing the messages when they come. How wonderful that your experience pushed you so far in that you can't deny it and how wonderful that you can share this with us and confirm others experiences that are often discounted as dreams or fantasies to escape horror rather than what they are....a connection to the spirit, ours combined with all others.

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