I can attest HEAR works. I've been doing this process for years, not knowing I was following a certain protocol, It's simply how I speak.🙏 Acknowledging a person's perspective is key. I also bring in curiosity; truly seeking to understand their perspective. And listening. ♡ Let's keep trying to understand and listen for what's underneath. PS. I'm currently also a Narrative Therapy Practitioner and in Narrative Therapy we're interested in the many layers which impact how we view ourselves, others and the world around us. Layers such as what we learned was ok/not ok from family of origin, cultural/gender/societal norms, media, religion, politics, systems. This level of seeking to understand also really helps!🙏