I too had a once in a lifetime experience with a male deer who came into my yard, came to me as I sat on my deck. He put his nose on my head, let me caress his neck and ears and even pull burrs from his back. He came many days after. The thrill of being in his presence was pure heaven. He lingered in my yard daily for months and became beloved to me. When winter snows became too deep, he wandered off to be with his brothers. I miss him.