Do You Find Belonging in Groups or Communities?

In this thought-provoking article by Shanna B. Tiayon, the author explores the nuanced differences between groups and communities. She reflects on her personal experiences and explains that while groups often operate based on rigid structures, status hierarchies, and conformity to norms, communities foster a sense of belonging through shared values, cooperation, and the celebration of diversity. Tiayon argues that communities, unlike groups, offer a more inclusive and supportive environment where individuals can thrive without sacrificing their authentic selves.
Tiayon recounts her discomfort in traditional group settings where status and conformity were prioritized, contrasting this with her positive experiences in various community settings, such as a local organic garden and writing circles. She highlights the importance of integrating communal elements into groups to enhance inclusivity and connection. By encouraging cooperation over conformity and redefining group norms to be more flexible and welcoming, groups can evolve into spaces that nurture individual expression and collective well-being.

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